How can you help your child become a critical and creative mathematical thinker? One of the best things you can do is ask them to explain what they are doing in class. After listening to the response, ask more questions such as:
- What was the best (most fun, challenging, exciting, different, etc.) thing you did today?
- Can you show me how to do…?
- Did anything you worked on in math class today surprise you?
- What questions do you want to ask your teacher tomorrow?
- Is this like something you have done before?
Remember, math is about the struggle. You won’t find short numerical answers to these kinds of questions in the bold face print in the textbook. Even though answers may not come easily, encourage your child to continue to try. If your child complains that, “my teacher never taught us how to do this,” resist the impulse to show them how. Instead help your child by asking:
- Does this remind you of other problems?
- What have you come up with so far?
- Where do you think you should start?
- What is the problem asking you to do?
- What do you already know? What information does the problem give you? How can you use that information?
- Would a picture or diagram help?
- How can I help you? (without giving away the solution)
Once your child has solved a problem, ask if he or she can find the same answer another way. In this way, you can challenge your child to look at problems in different ways, and encourage him or her to develop a deeper understanding of mathematics. There is no one right way to solve a problem. Understanding there are several different ways to solve a problem gives your child more confidence, especially if their first approach does not work.
Have your child proof read his/her math to make sure:
- The actual question that was asked has been answered;
- All the parts of the question have been completed;
- The solution makes sense;
- Mathematical terms have been used correctly and effectively;
- The correct units (for example, gallons or feet) are used;
- The steps to the solution are so clear that someone else could read their work and understand how they found the answer.